Saturday, December 15, 2012

Broken Family Ties?

Is it true that your family has "grown apart" and struggles with dysfunction? Alienation? Estrangement? If so, you may take comfort, you are not alone. Recently I have had the pleasure of meeting with many open and wounded souls. Our life paths seem to have hit a cross-road where business as usual no longer exists. Siblings that have always been close aren't speaking to one another. The manifestation of having controlling or equally wounded parents is playing out in the breakdown of what we felt we could always rely on, our family. What appears to be a breakdown is anything but. Chaos looms large in our lives that feel as though they are spinning out of control and as we struggle to grasp that one thread of hope, that too is taken from us. It’s almost as though we are being picked up, turned around and being sent in a whole new direction. Guess what? That’s exactly what’s happening! We incarnate to learn, feel and grow. Sometimes we become so entrenched in our stories and behaviors that we lose track of our souls desire to evolve. At times like these, the Universal God takes the wheel and steers us back on track to have the experiences that will fulfill our spirits request from this incarnation. They are uncomfortable and stretch us to a point we feel we can no longer endure and then, guess what? We make it. We come through the pain and whether we have the original people surrounding us or we have found new family to love us through, we come through it. You will come through it. This is a time to let go and truly, let God. The ego’s path is narrow, God’s path for us is unlimited. Trust that those who are not currently in your life supporting you are out fighting their own evolution. For today, give up the fight. Let go of the reins and you will find this chapter can go much more quickly when we live in faith. I believe in you and your souls desire to pass through this chapter with a greater understanding of it’s importance. God bless us, every one. <3


  1. I am here living this same scenario and it is extremely difficult to connect myself with the next/right choice, person, or place i need to get me out of my current situation and into the next. Im hurting inside, my soul is drained. I have faith but im confused.

    1. Jessica, My heart goes out to you. Confusion may indicate that you know what to do but are not ready to make that move. <3 I tend to believe that when we don't know what to do, the best thing is to do nothing. You will know what to do when the time is right to take action. Blessings on your path. <3